![]() Don’t only discuss what you want to do, also discuss what the words you’re using mean. Instead I usually prefer to have negotiation conversations like these in coffee shops or during long car rides. ![]() I also recognize that I am in the minority of folks who find spreadsheets sexy and I don’t expect you to fill out you Yes/No/Maybe Lists in your finest lingerie. It can be revisited often, as people’s preferences can fluctuate, and it’s a fun way to get new ideas and reflect on your own desires. Your Yes/No/Maybe List is a tool to use in an ongoing conversation about all the sexy things you want to do together. Your Yes/No/Maybe List is not a contract, it’s not consent, and it’s not set in stone. The goal here is to focus on the things you can do together and not dwell on the nos, You should NEVER try to talk someone out of their no or expect them to explain it to you, though they may choose to. Then the partners reconvene and discuss where their yesses overlap. and sorts each one into one of three columns: Yes, No, or Maybe. It’s simple, each person involved in the negotiation takes a list of activities/terms/food items etc. * Sounding ::: The practice of inserting something into the urethra, predominately on male genitalia.A Yes/No/Maybe list is a common tool in kink circles for negotiating scenes, but really, you could use it to negotiate… pretty much anything. Also includes body-swapping and similar concepts. * Transformation ::: The fantasy or ritual about a character starting off as one person, but ending as another. * Futanari ::: The concept of fully female characters having, often engorged, male genitalia. * Necrophilia ::: The simulated concept of a deceased participant. * Ageplay ::: Acting much younger or older than your actual age to furfil a fantasy scenario. * Incest ::: The simulated fantasy of having relations with siblings, daughter/son to parent or similar structures. * Glory hole ::: The ritual of isolating a person from others, using holes in the wall as the only link between the two. * Magic wands ::: Much like vibrators, a magic wand delivers a strong vibration to a larger area with stronger force. * Vibrators ::: Phallic shaped devices with internal vibration. * Sensory deprivation ::: Covering both ears and eyes completely, often using noise-reduction tech to emphasise the feeling of isolation. A cage, full rope harness, ducttape, restricting the person to absolute minimal movement. * Encasement ::: Full encagement often means full movement restriction. * Stockades ::: Freestanding rigs that restricts the head, and often arms or legs too. * Cufflings ::: Wrapped around wrists and often ancles too, cufflings have little restrictions themselves, but using hooks and rope, they often makes it easier for the master to restrict the wearer spontaniously. Makes the wearer unable to grab or hold objects with their fingers. ![]() * Mitts ::: Cloth, leather or metal tools where you place your hands inside, often closed in a fist. * Leash ::: A leash is the rope between the wearer (often tied to a collar) and the master. * Gag ::: A rubber or plastic ornament placed in the mouth of the wearer, making them unable to speak. * Edging ::: The act of bringing the partner very close to orgasm, but giving the genitalia time to cool down, and then repeating the process. * Facials ::: The act of ejaculating directly on the face of the partner. * Handjobs / fingering ::: Stimulating the genitalia of the partner using mainly just hands. * Sleepover ::: Staying with your sexual partner overnight. * Using real names ::: Referring to the partner using real names, instead of pet or nicknames. * Spooning ::: Holding the partner close, often back to chest, and embracing them from behind. Hickies are listed under the light pain category. * Kissing (body) ::: Planting kisses on various bodyparts. ![]()
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